How to Provide Care with Dignity

When caring for someone, whether it’s a family member or a client, it’s essential to provide support with respect and maintain their dignity at all times. It can be challenging for someone to accept help at home, especially when they’re used to being independent. Enabling them to keep some level of autonomy and choice is essential for their mental health and well-being.

Here are some tips to ensure that the person you’re caring for maintains their dignity and feels respected:

Provide Choice

Always give the person receiving care a choice and options for everything you do. This includes what they want to wear, what they’d like to eat, and what they would like to watch on TV. Even simple decisions like whether they’d like to shower or not can make a difference. Allowing a person to be fully involved in decision-making related to their routines will positively affect their health and well-being. Feeling empowered and in control of their care decisions can help them maintain a sense of control over their life.


When you’re talking to the person you’re supporting, ensure that you’re treating them as an equal. Listen to what they have to say, be respectful of their wants, needs, and opinions, and you’ll develop a rapport. Spending quality time with them will be enjoyable and something to look forward to. Remember to treat people how you would like to be treated.

Preserving dignity during personal care

Assisting someone with their personal care is an intimate thing to do. Always offer enough privacy so they don’t feel vulnerable. When assisting a person to shower or wash, look away if possible while they’re stepping into a towel. This will allow them to retain their dignity. Not everyone is comfortable with being naked in front of other people, so it’s important to respect their personal preference. With a strip wash, keep the top half covered while doing the bottom half, and vice versa.

Respect personal belongings

Respect the person and their surroundings, and always ask permission before doing anything or moving anything if you’re unsure whether the person would be comfortable with your actions.

Caring for someone with respect and dignity can make a big difference in their quality of life. By providing choices and involving them in decision-making, you’ll empower them to feel in control of their care. Good communication, treating them as equals, and respecting their privacy and personal belongings will also help them maintain their dignity. Remember that every person is different, and what works for one person may not work for another. It’s essential to listen to the person you’re caring for, be sensitive to their needs and preferences, and provide care that’s tailored to their individual needs.

For more in-depth information, Explore AARP’s insightful guide on balancing safety and dignity in caregiving for a loved one AARP – How Caregivers Can Balance Loved One’s Safety and Dignity